VIDEO/TRANSCRIPT: Sexual Harassment At AAU, Ekpoma: Victimized Student Fights Back

 TRANSCRIPT: The sexual harassment encounter between Engineer P. O. Otubu of Ambrose Alli University and a female student "Judith"-The video starts with an approach to a room with a burglary proof gate and  a wooden door slightly open behind it. The gate appears locked and Engineer/Professor P. O. Otubu sat on a plastic chair panting after what appears to be a fight between him and student "Judith"

Female voice: Judith

Judith: Uhh

Femaile Voice: I wan talk to you

Lecturer: You don naked me now

Judith: (apparently calling the man) Otubu

Lecturer: Yes?

Judith: Otubu?

Lecturer: Yes?

Judith: Oh. Sheybi you for don pass me (meaning she already got a passing grade from an earlier sexual encounter with the professor) , make I go. It is better than all this sweat.

Lecturer: the other time I didn’t know your number then

 Judith: Ah, ahn, you didn’t know…you did it intentionally

Lecturer: No, no, no no

Judith: So that I will come and you'll do it again , so that you will f**k

Lecturer: Me!

Judith: ( says something in local Edo dialect)

(Lecturer makes a pleading gesture to person filming the incident. Judith appears to use a phone to take lecturer’s picture)

Lecturer: my brother, you are a man. Are you a student?

Male voice: Judith, Judith, Juddith

Male voice 2: (apparently in response to lecturer’s pleading gestures) Wetin you dey beg, you dey beg me? You never see (inaudible)

Male Voice 1 from "film crew": Judith, Judith, that is okay. Open the door for him. Open for him, open for him. Please open for him

Male voice 2: Open where?

Judith: (apparently in answer to lecturer’s quiet question) I don’t know them o

Lecturer: (to man or men behind camera) My friend

(Judith derides the man’s privates )

Judith: John Thomas (laughs)

Male voice 1: Judith, wey the check wetin e wan sign. E don sign am?

Judith: I no see am see check

Lecturer:E no bounce check now I have the check

Male voices: Oya sign them now. You go sign that check before you leave this plave o. Which bank?

Lecturer: (apparently answering) Bank PHB…

Ale voice 1: okay I have somebody that can verify it for me

Lecturer: As soon as they pay in June salary, you cash it

Male voice 2: June salary? We should be waiting for June salary?

Male voice 3?: no, noooo. No.

Male voice 2: Sign it first

Male voice: where is the car key

Male voice: Sign it first

Judith: (Appears to be talking on the phone ) Honey? Ohhhh, e tell me say my car no…I dey video am sha, normal….my love

Male voice: E don sign am

(Judith , whilst on the phone, pulls lecturer’s trousers stripping him nearly naked)

Male voice: Judith, let him sign the cheque first now. (Shouting) Let him sign the cheque

(Whilst Judith is pulling the man’s trousers)

Female voice : Let am sign the cheque

Male voice: let am sign the cheque

Male voice: no worry, e no bounce

(man talks inaudibly)

Male voices keep calling out to Judith

Male voice; leave that man

Judith (still with phone to her ear says to lecturer): Put your hand down

Male voices support her request by shouting the same to lecturer

Male voice: What are you still waiting?

Female voice: Put your hand down

Judith: Put your hand down. Oya snap us. Put oyour hand down

(Lecturer complies revealing a shrivelled up penis)

Judith: Put your hand down.

Male voice: stay close, stay close

(lecturer smiles sheepishly)

Judith: (slaps his back because he has pulled his trousers up again.) Put you hand down. You are covering your john Thomas

Male voice 1: Put your hands down . you see you are covering it. Put your hands down

 

Lecturer: Are you taking it? (apparently asking if they are filming / taking pictures)

Judith: Oya, Snap am o. I hope e get memory card

Male voice: yes, yes

Male 2: better memory card, you never see

Judith: you are not going anywhere.

Male voice1: you are not going anywhere. Come come come come, see

Male voice2 : The fact is, If this cheque bounce, this photograph will get around this school

Male voice: settle us first, settle us now first

Lecturer; I beg, give me something to wear

Male voice: I gave you something to wear – that white knicker. Put this oon , wear that one

Lecturer: I will wear it on top of it

Male voice: wear it on top. You can go with it . It is my own

Male voice 2: I wanted to give him my knicker if he he can pay for it

Female voice: Go sit down. Your own no pass money (she says apparently to the boy who wanted money for his own shorts) - instead make una dey beg my sister

Male voice: I don beg o. I don beg o

Lecturer: This is pass…Its cheque book

Male voice: Thre are some things inside ( the ma’s trousers). Give her everything to hold (must be female voice) so that nothing is missing

Male voice: Where is the cheque book? Where is the cheque book

Judith: If you do not put this thing, I will call your wife

Female voice: e say e wan sign cheque now

Male voice: Sign the cheque, before you do anything

( A lot of behind the scene conversations. People are asking what is going on )

Judith: Which date e go put for the cheque

Lecturer: June salary

Male voice: we don’t even know when…

Male date : put any date that

Lecturer: (inaudible utterance) soon as they pay, just come and cash it. This Monday

Make voice2: If you out Monday the cheque is oing to bounce because june salary…Monday is not okay. Put month end

Lecturer: 30th

Male voice: What is on the 30th?

Lecturer: It is Friday or so.

Male voice: okay put 29th

Male voice 2:You go settle our own?

Lecturer: I have already put 30th

Male voice: hope that signature is your signature. Or else you go see yourself inside TV today

Male voice: This one clear. E clear like DVD nah. This lecturer?

(lecturer gives a frowning Judith the cheque, smiling and petting her)

Male voice: show the cheque, show am show am

(someone holds cheque up to camera)

Male voice: This is the cheque? From Mr Okosun. N100,000

Male voice 2: N100,000?

Is N100,000 okay by you

Judith: He’s paid (inaudible) N500..(rest inaudible)

(Lecturer tries to hide face behind cheque. Voices ask him to bring h is hands down from his face)
Male voice: your father

Lecturer: (smiling) you are abusing me?

Male voice: you know wetin lecturer don do me for this school?

Lecturer: Which course are you doing?

Male voice: Why you dey ask me?

(Apparently to Judith’s further protests)

Male voice: Its ok , its ok. Here is your cheque. Hold the cheque

(The cheque appears to be in the name of one Okosun)

Male voice 2: Sign that cheque on the back. Sign that cheque on the back. Put your name , you number and….your name your number and your home address

Female voice: Do all this thing, make you open this door
Transcript provided by Kayode Ogundamisi

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All EDO girls(women) are whores

It changes nothing Judith is just a typical definition of Edo girls and women. They do anything for money home and abroad. I think Edo women should work on your get rich or die trying in desperation. As i am tying this message now there are lots of Edo girls same street i live hawking their selves for money. Prostitution is a filthy act which the Edo women see as part of their culture. No Yoruba, Hausa, Igbo, Uhrobo, and other minorities would welcome act of prostitution local or abroad its still same Benin people. Judith is not an exception, they should let the lecturer go in peace cos he haven't done anything wrong he pays to have his way with them. Arrant Nonsense. Judith would graduate from AAU and soon gain Admission to Street prostitution in Italy, Spain, Germany and all over Europe, they even take cheap finding their way to Arab nation. I weep for thee Edo women. Such happens only in Edo state Sahara reporters should contact me i have a lot of sick videos i captured showing Edo girls messing up here in this part of the world. Pathetic.
This would strike you hard and it would invite insults from all corners but i really don't care. Benin women should stop denting the images of hard working Nigerians abroad.

AAU"S SEX FOR MARK

Is the Wife and Children still at home? This is eternal shame o. It is indelible. Otubu and Judith collectively destroyed themselves.

Stupid Act

This is a stupid act for the students that is involved in act and the Lecturer himself. This can only happened in third world country. I can imagine such scenario happened. I belive no American Lecturer can experience this. This is injustice,inhumane,demonic and satanic. Is there ever any law in the community .Shame on you guys.

Judith and Her Professor

If this is used as evidence or exhibit in court, it may not even stand. This was recorded under duress, the witness were not not shown, suppose they pointed gun at the Professor behind camera? Who are the people behind the camera? Why was the cheque written on another person's name instead of the 'victim'? That money via cheque could have paid for the services put up by those 'thugs' behind the camera.

Judith should be ashamed of herself, many people have seen her face on net. How did you even pass JAMB/Post JAMB? How did you pass your WAEC/NECO exams? How did you manage to gain admission into Ambrose Alli University? Is it the same sex for mark all through your way up? You will also use same medium to get job? Because I don't think you can even pass through primary school, considering this your action.

What a shameful act!

absolute rubbish

This video does not achieve any meaningful purpose but exposes Judith as an illiterate looking for cheap popularity.
The professor needs to hide is face in shame and stop his nefarious activity if he does not want to fall into cheap blackmail next time. This is absolute rubbish and i thank God the two people involved have been sent packing from the school

I am also a graduate on cis

I am also a graduate on cis international university and a lady too.
I am so ashamed of judith and her cohorts of like minded friends,i am from edo too but i live abroad.
Judith,You made a lot of mistakes and i think i know by now you are hiding your head in big shame for indulging is such shameful acts.I want you to know that its an everyday occurrence in every university around the world,you should be biting the bitter pill of your your over dose remember those funny boys i hear their voice at the background refused to show their faces cos they want you to go down alone.
Big shame.Next time you should learn to play it quite and cool that is if there will be any next time.

Sexxxxxxy Nancy

I am also a graduate on cis

I am also a graduate on cis international university and a lady too.
I am so ashamed of judith and her cohorts of like minded friends,i am from edo too but i live abroad.
Judith,You made a lot of mistakes and i think i know by now you are hiding your head in big shame for indulging is such shameful acts.I want you to know that its an everyday occurrence in every university around the world,you should be biting the bitter pill of your your over dose remember those funny boys i hear their voice at the background refused to show their faces cos they want you to go down alone.
Big shame.Next time you should learn to play it quite and cool that is if there will be any next time.

Sexxxxxxy Nancy

I feel so sori for that lady

I feel so sori for that lady cos she has made herslf so cheap.
I think she didnt know what she was going into when she planned this,ohhh a big slap.
I think she should be cooling her head as a guest of the Nigeria police and with lots of charges both for kidnapping,extortion and blackmailing.
Boyz

EMBODIMENT OF STUPIDITY

1st,the lecturer is not a man and he's just a weakening.Despite the fact that the lecture did a very wrong thing to the lady as the case may be but the lady went too far.As far as am concerned,that lady is a prostitute.A responsible girl will not take laws into her hands in the name of vengance.Her father will be a replical of this lecturer's act.
I so much pity the guys behind the camera,they revel in sophisticated ignorance and they will soon swallow their bitter pills for this humilation.Considering the fact that i would never get naked for committing similar offense no matter what cos i would have gotten the girl naked before anyone will put up any camera to record and if by chance it happens,everyone involved will not be alive to see the next market day.......If truely,this is the handy work of some cultist,then you're a dish and baby...If buccaneers as writing in some comments,then am totally disappointed.
SHAME TO YOU ALL..

really amusing

this type of issue is not an unusual thing so why the fuss?am a girl and i must say the lady judith is just a cheap whore,the conversations should be reviewed critically,did i hear her say 'u wan cme do am again'?obviously,they've been intimate before and because she expected a pass after sleeping with him which she didnt get as the lecturer didnt know her number,she resulted to blackmail.if she's doing this because she wants the lecturer to be punished,why's she asking for money like a prostitute?obviously she's one!taking a look at the manner of words spoken,they're all touts!

Prof Fuck up BIG-TIME

I can never be subdued by any civilian to expose my only asset to the world because of a case like this,was there any A/K47 pointing at him?,i feel ashamed when i see you people still address this late old weakling as a buccaneer,now what training was he given? Extra marital affairs is so common that its now a day to day activity,even the V.C;s are not excluded and some top political leaders are also involved,these are the people to have handled this case if you had shown to that girl that you are truly the Buccaneer they say you are.Well this cannot happen to an axe-man,though you;ve made the right choice by killing yourself cos re not what to be called a strong man.Even a jew is far better than you cos you are a coward.

Prof Fuck up BIG-TIME

I can never be subdued by any civilian to expose my only asset to the world because of a case like this,was there any A/K47 pointing at him?,i feel ashamed when i see you people still address this late old weakling as a buccaneer,now what training was he given? Extra marital affairs is so common that its now a day to day activity,even the V.C;s are not excluded and some top political leaders are also involved,these are the people to have handled this case if you had shown to that girl that you are truly the Buccaneer they say you are.Well this cannot happen to an axe-man,though you;ve made the right choice by killing yourself cos re not what to be called a strong man.Even a jew is far better than you cos you are a coward.

This is disapointing

Hello every one,
This is a disapointment to the african education that is while we are not regards in the western world when it comes for certificate presentation.
The prof is stupid and not inteligent as a prof he was humunited because of his stupidity and i dont blame Judith for using him to set an exmple to others how belive in passing student by having there bodies what are you trying to tell the world about our education system.Even if it is a set up why must a prof fail into that? The venue of all this mess since to be in Judith room so what take the prof to that enveroment if he claim is a set up?Please i need that question to be answered.
Let help our education system to be build up with sanity.Judith i congratulate your effort if it really happen to you but learn how to study and work hard without sex.

NIGERIANS AND THEIR SHAMEFUL MENTALITY

SOMETIMES I AM SO ASHAMED TO BE IDENTIFIED AS A NIGERIAN WITH ALL THESE MENTALITIES CONTRIBUTING IN THIS FORUM NEGATIVELY ABOUT AN INNOCENT POWERLESS STUDENT WHOSE ONLY DEFENCE AGAINST SEXUAL HARRASEMENT IS TO SHOOT A VIDEO EVIDENCE TO PROTECT HERSELF. I AM EQUALLY ASHAMED THAT MOST OF THE PEOPLE CRITIZING HER ARE ALL MEN AND THAT SHOWS YOU THE KIND OF SOCIETY WE HAVE IN THAT COUNTRY CALLED NIGERIA. WHETHER SHE GOT INTO THE UNIVERSITY BY CROOK OR FRAUD IS QUITE IRRELEVANT TO WHAT HAPPENED TO HER AND I HOPE MY PEOPLE BACK HOME REALIZE THAT WE ARE IN THE TWENTY FIRST CENTURY AND ALL HANDS SHOULD BE ON DECK TO CONDENM THIS PROFESSOR FOR WHAT HE DID, IF THIS GUY IS ANYWHERE IN NORTH AMERICA, HE WOULD BE IN JAIL AND THE UNIVERSITY INVOLVED WOULD PAY HANDSOMELY TO THIS GIRL, SO TO ALL THE MEN LAYING ALL KINDS OF INSULTS ON THIS INNOCENT GIRL, I AM ASHMED OF YOU GUYS AND AS A GUY WHO RESPECTS WOMEN AND LIVING IN CANADA IT IS SO APPAULING THAT IN THIS MODERN TIMES WE STILL HAVE PEOPLE HARBORING THIS TYPE OF STONE AGE MENTALITY AND YOU GUYS CRITICIZING THIS GIRL SHOULD BE UTTERLY ASHAMED OF YOURSELF AND BURY YOURSELF UNDERGROUND BECAUSE YOU DO NOT BELONG IN THIS MODERN SOCIETY, TO HELL WITH YOU, WHAT IF THIS GIRL IS YOUR SISTER OR FAMILY MEMBER?

Can You imagine this?

The past of the Professor will speak for him on this occasion. If he has any rumoured instance of harassment in the past, he should be fired with no benefit.He is a big shame to the academic community. I pity his wife and children.

However, if he has a really clean past, Judith should be asked some serious questions which may also interest the Police.

In any case, the authority of the University should not ignore this as a non-issue!

Simple Case to Review

Facts to learn.
1) The quality of conversation of all the participants is indicative of the type of hoodlums that were involved.
2) Is blackmail/extortion a paneacea to getting justice for perceived academic wrongdoing?
3) If the Proff was so randy as to have that number of perticipants, are there other cases aside HOLY JUDITH?
4) Can her past exam papers and her admission be subject to academic review to determine her IQ?
5) Can the marked scripts of the Proff be subject to academic review to determine his marking standards?
This is really an easy case.
A) A case of cultism or Blackmail? OR
B) A case of sexual harrasment?

horrible comments

For Adeola, anonymous and all others that blame judith for her actions, you shuold all go and give the lecturer kudos for trying to sleep with a student? I`m so ashamed that such statement could come from Nigerians like myself that know that if judith simply reported the issue to the appropriate quaters she may never get justice talk less of graduating. you all should condemn that lecturers abominable act

Judith must be one of those

Judith must be one of those that cheated to get to university and on getting in, the reality set in that university is not for mediocres; she must had tried to use the poor lecturer but the lecturer used her instead and like any woman,when they dont get what they want, they chose destruction path. The lecturer is not a smart dude, and Judith
should be ashamed for using what God created for a man pleasure to now used it to destroy,not the man alone but the whole OTUBUS family.

shame! shame!

am a law graduate of aau,i finished from there about 6years ago,i was never a victim of this type of thing but i always heard of it and felt the pains of the females involved in it. it hurts.i just heard of this issue today after i saw the news paper report on the lecturer's suicide,really its a shame. i cant blame judith,whether or not she had slept with him before this incident is not the issue,the issue is that the lecturer approached her with this shameful act.am so so sorry for the late engr' family. am sorry he had to kill himself.we need change in nigeria and it has to start from here. judith didnt kidnap him,he voluntarily went to her place of abode bagged with the sole aim of mating with her.so u that said he was kidnapped dont know the meaning of that word.ask any lawyer and u will be put on the right track.it really is unfortunate that he stupidly and sheeplessly took his own life.if anyone tries to prosecute judith or expel her,she should take the matter up.students who trust that they wrote their papers good enough to pass the course can and her free to approach their lecturer who fails them in the course.so she is on the right track.its just so so sad.i wish he had stayed and faced the consequence of his actions.we should remember that so many female students had experienced his wicked and bitter demand.and they would have slept with him so he could give them their due scores.whether or not judith is brilliant is not the issue,that she was victimised and failed by her lecturer is the issue. ENGINEER P.O. OTUBU u really shouldn't have killed yourself,you dont own your life,God does. JUDITH,i wish you justice and liberation,CONGRATS girl.

Haba Judith!

Judith:
You did this to somebody's father? Haba! Do you have the fear of God. Do you not know you should allow God do your fights for you? I personally suffered similar ‘sex’ faith while in the university. Yes, our grades were slashed 'cos of 'agreeing females' in our class. And we did not take it that far!
Don’t you know down the age, you will be better off than your detractors?
If I were you I would have remained failing till the salvation of God comes.
Judith: You think you are exonerated by this act, you both are guilty. Yes, you and the prof.
Judith: somebody will do it to you too at the prime of your success. Cut you off for unforgiving….
Prof: somebody will sleep shamefully with your daughter or granddaughter or so in future if you do such acts!
All: fear God.

Your first paragraph said it

Your first paragraph said it all.

THIS IS A SHAM

THE AAU MANAGEMENT SHOULD TAKE ACTION AND EXPEL THESE STUDENTS INVOLVED IN KIDNAPPING AND EXTORTION OF A THEIR TEACHER. IT IS OUTRAGEOUS. THIS MUST STOP BEFORE OTHERS EMULATE THEM.

THIS IS A KIDNAP CASE

This is a clear case of kidnapping. This senseless Judith of a fellow should be expelled and then prosecuted for kidnap

RE-Prof n student saga

Anonymous, your concerns are understandable but am saddened by your mention of "Appropriate Quarters." I am supposing that you are a new resident in Nigeria or better still an outsider.Nigeria lacks due process or appropriate quarters like you called it.If this is a confirmed case of sexual harassment and Judith had gone to the appropriate quarters, her life would have been worse than the negative video that we see here of her.These Idiots called lecturers in Nigerian schools operate in a syndicate that would have worked against her to frustrate her life now and in the world to come....At least some other criminals are learning from this video that technology is not very far away in Europe and the Americas like most Africans still see it!

A CALL GIRL CALLED JUDITH

The lecturer is a jelly,I i meet my self in this kind of situation. I will tear her naked not minding any thing that would happen.The lecturer is still a toddler.
The government and the university governing body should set up a powerfull investigation to verify how the girl got admission into that school then get All her papers and result from 100 level till date for assessment. I am almost sure that this is not the first lecturer she was doing it with.
She has successfully kidnapped this lecturer to blackmail him for grade.She and all her accomplice in crime should be dealt with according to the law .You can see their emphasis om money.Infact what this call gerl did is what we see on lagos roads few years back, not until people start to beat hee out of them that the trend was put to rest.She was not even ashamed to look at the man"s thing.SHAME. SHE IS A SUPER HARLOT.She can never pass any exam.

A MAN MUST BE TOUGH AND BATTLE READY.BE THE MAN!

Your comment is clear.

I am a practising engineer with a master's degree.I sympathise with the foolishliness of my professional colleague and senior.

I make bold to say that the girl met a weakling.Extra marital affair is nothing but choice.You can sleep with a student and even marry her as a second wife if you so decide but not with the promise of better grades.

Prof did not exchange marks but only pretended to forget the ladies matric number.The girl i saw can't pass an exam unless the course is thought and marked in her local dialet.

Prof was noble.He only needed to be violent at that point since he is a night and not a buccaneer he lost it.The buccaneer training says when in a confinement and your life is at risk 'fight to finish'.He needs to be re-orientated.He only needed to tear the lady apart and face manslaughter rather than this mess.The story would now have had more ingredients than this.

It takes the wisdom and courage of Rawlings and his courageous cohorts to make Ghana what it is today! Never mind, they are slowly going down the abyss of degeneration again and if no other Rawlings and co turn up in the next 20 years only God knows whether Ghana will not take over from Nigeria. There is a saying in Yoruba land that ‘Agbalagba ti ko ba gbon, omo lo ma ko’ literally meaning that the elderly one who is not wise will be taught by his child’ Ogbon (wisdom) here does not refer to the crazy smartness of some unscrupulous elders nor does it refer to cunningness of some of them. Someone has been perpetrating something that is not good, instead of us to collectively rise up against a horrendous act; we are dilly dallying with the law? What is law if it does not redress the wrongs being meted on the weak and poor? I am so sure that among those who are raising the ugly side of the law are those who have benefited and compromised taciturnly with the status-quo of oppression. What is the right and freedom that Hobbes and co insinuated we surrender to a central government when that central government uses the same law to put us in bondage? The lecturer should be cautioned, period; others too who have been dealt with in this manner like Judith’s should come out with courage and openness to expose other lecturers who are into this. Anyway, I am not surprised, obscenity raise up their generations, pornography was their pastime from secondary school, so before they could know their left from right, they have taken what sapped their energy, reduce their latent spiritually energy to negative as pastime hence they indulge in sign languages and waste their valuable virtues with which to develop themselves and their societies to binges in sex, alcohol, and club houses, I doubt if anyone will come out! I assure you, whoever is involved, touch Judith and you will see the wrath of those who really move this earth. Oun ti ko da, ko da, period. Instead of us to collectively condemn acts that are not for development, we are raising up the ugly heads of western philosophy of law that has turned Europe and America to hellish havens of moral decadents? What you guys don’t know is that those who turn out those ‘sophisticated’ technology that you are crazy about are not in the lot of those who jump up and down in ‘punkish’ madness and ‘techno’ craziness? My dear readers, behind every technology you see is serious work, hard work, deep thinking and precision engineering. I am sure in Europe and America are those who have liberated their minds and use their freedom to develop themselves and their societies with serious hard work (perspiration) added to it and not in the league of those who victimized others in anyway to indulge in ‘sinful’ pleasures and are also not among those who support such heinous crimes and cover it. Instead of us to rise up against the forces of ‘darkness’ that is making us reel in abyss of backwardness we are dancing about with stupid heritage of deceptive and oppressive ‘scot free’ additives in law! Errant Nonsense, I did not make a mistake I wrote and I write it against Errant Nonsense! You have touched me once, and you have been forgiven, but touch Judith and I mean it, you will see the wrath of those who really move this earth. I wonder what will happen if those who are writing nonsense about ‘law this’ ‘law that’ on an act that is condemnable are at the receiving end, with the constants of Judith’s frame of mind, parentage, orientation and economic positioning prevailing on their existence. Ha! Nigeria Ronu! Hey, before I go and attend to my daily chores, I am not saying sex is wrong, I am not saying you should be inhibited in self expression, but I am letting you know that using sex as a weapon to tarnish someone’s image, career, etc is an act abominable to those who ‘let us’ created this whole multi(uni)verse. Why should you sell your ‘birthright’ in guilty conscientious pleasure? Why should you feel guilty exercising your God giving privilege with a consenting mate that has not been in any way blackmailed, capriciously cajoled and silently maneuvered into submitting for the sake of his or her career or life, when that same career is supposedly needed to develop not only himself and herself but also the economy within which ‘all’ operate.

Learn to take charge if you must lead.Recall,all today's formidable leaders are gun men and they are tough e.g Gusau,IBB,OBJ,Tinubu,Buhari e.t.c

Don't be deceived,all the time be in charge,take the lead.While reading seriously in school try learning to be tough because life is tough and the people therein are tough.Be a buccaneer,be the quite and intelligent type,be focused.

Bernard Utomi

Judith and the professor

It is obvious that Judith was upset at the professor for not giving her a grade the last time.
It is obvious that in these case, Judith must be failing the course or on the border line.
It is obvious that if you are not failing the course, or you are seriously studying your book,
the professor would never approach you for grade but instead to make you a better Engineer.
It is more obvious that Judith was a bad student if the professor even want to offer his salary than give her a grade.

Their is a lot ridding in this case.
Professors knows who are serious in their classes and who is trying to improve.

This professor knows that Judith is not seroius in his class.

For someone with your level

For someone with your level of education (as you claim), it is a shame you make comments like this. First of all I have to congratulate you for indulging in extramarital affairs. what do you want next, an award? You wrote "I understand that there was no exchange of grade for sex.Thanks to prof>The lady only wished he did...". In case you do no understand the video, or what goes on in the universities, lectures like this man "promise" to give good grades in return for "Sex". Why would the girl meet her own end of the plan and the lecturer fail to meet his? I'm not condoning this practice; however, I do not agree with your being glad the lecturer withheld the marks from the lady after she did her part.
Secondly,engaging in extramarital affairs is different than threatening to fail students and using your power as a lecturer to have sex with students. That is just pure evil.
He is not a weakling, he is a pure idiot
He did not grow up well? seriously? and he is a damned lecturer?
The lecturer in terms of professionalism was noble? Dude, don't even let me start with what professionalism entails, especially if you are an educator and contribute immensely not only to the educational, but other psychosocial development of your students...having sex with your students for grades ...NOT NOBLE

*I will not even bother to get into the "there is no gentleman in Nigeria part"

u did well!!!!!

i finished from AAU in 2001 and this kind of treatment has always exisited way back then. i felt for some of my female colleagues who had to suffer the fate of these so called lecturers. i thankGod that i escaped the slaughter,cos i had guardians who were in top managment both in the school and outside thatprotected me, although i paid heavily cos my result was slashed and i was given a 2:2 inplace of a 2:1. my result was even ready before i wrote my last paper i was told by some reliable sources. my result traded to someone who didnt merit it cos they paid the HIGHER prize. i thank God for where i am now.

ladies who finished from AAU might not want to talk, i thankGod this one reacted.

the lecturer deserves it and much more,if you know where i am coming from....

shame to ALL MEN who think and treat women shabily.

A bill needs to be passed to save women from the illtreatment of men like these. they are many and still out there.

U MEN WATCHOUT COS YOU DO NOT KNOW WOT IS COMING TO YOU.

NOT MAN ENOUGH

IF YOU ARE SO AFRAID OF YOUR WIFE OR FAMILY KNOWING OF YOUR EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIR TO THE EXTENT THAT YOU SHEEPISHLY EXPOSE YOUR MANHOOD TO THE FULL GLARE OF LITERALLY THE ENTIRE WORLD, THEN YOU ARE NOT MAN ENOUGH IRRESPECTIVE OF YOUR ACADEMIC QUALIFICATIONS OR SOCIETAL STANDING.

REAL MEN KNOW WHEN TO FIGHT FOR THEIR LIVES.